• On Men Shaving
    • In Desi's most recent post he discussed the topic of women shaving.  In response, I would like to address the matter of men shaving - both their faces and their genital areas...

      Face Shaving:  Beard or no beard doesn't really matter; some girls have a preference aesthetically speaking, but with or without doesn't matter sex-wise.  What matters is stubble.  It's recently come to my attention that many guys have never heard of what girls like to call "beard burn."  This is a dreaded and painful condition which probably most girls (and I'm sure many guys have as well, though I don't know that they're aware of our term for it...) have suffered from at some point in our lives.  Basically, when you make out with a guy who has stubble, it's sandpaper-like texture can easily lead to the development a rough, raw patch on the chin from all the rubbing.  It hurts.  A LOT.  It takes forever to heal, and it's incredibly difficult to cover up with makeup.  Now imagine what that rough, sandpaper texture feels like rubbing against the sensitive skin that makes up our pussies.  I think my point has been made.

      Genital Shaving:  I have, on a couple of occasions in my life, encountered men who liked to shave around their dicks & balls.  I'm sure there are girls & guys out there who totally love this, but I'm not a fan, and for two main reasons.  The first being that as with face shaving (and as mentioned in Desi's post, pussy shaving), stubble is an issue if a man shaves his genital area.  Grinding your pussy/clit/ass against sandpaper stubble hurts.  My second big issue is that I just think it looks weird.  I mean seriously guys, it just looks strange for you to have no hair down there at all...
    3 comments Most recent by SoniaOctober 2011Dear Desi.xxx Blog
  • Dear Desi: How can I get my husband to stop looking at porn?
    • Dear Desi and Effie,

      I have caught my husband looking at pornography a few times and I find it to be repulsive.  That he would look at other naked women and videos of strangers having sex is a side of him that I did know existed until I caught him.  I know this makes him more likely to cheat on me.  Thinking about him masturbating to pornography makes me not want to look at him, let alone touch him.  How can I get him to stop?  Please help.


      Desi's Answer: Thank you for sharing your problem.  Please don't take this the wrong way: you need to lighten up.  There is nothing wrong with you husband looking at porn and you should not make it your goal to get to "get him to stop."  He is not cheating on you or doing anything to compromise your marriage.  Furthermore, there is no reason for you to believe that looking at porn will cause him to act any differently towards you, in bed or otherwise.

      If it really bothers you so deeply, I would seriously suggest taking a few minutes and look at some porn for yourself.  You will see that much of it is simply people having sex and that watching it might get you a little hot yourself.  If not, so be it.  At least try to realize that there is nothing wrong with jacking off to porn.  

      It is very common for people in general to enjoy porn.  Personally, I think that looking at pornography is a good way to keep yourself interested in your partner by allowing yourself to imagine other sexual possibilities.  Furthermore, looking at porn with a partner can be a very fun way to spice up your sex life.

      But seriously, take a chill pill.  There is something going on with your aversion to porn and it is far more unhealthy than your husband jerking off to it.

      Sincerely,

      Desi


      Effie's Answer:  I'm with Desi on this one.  There is nothing wrong with your husband looking at porn.  It is totally normal.

      First off, pretty much everybody masturbates (and if their not, they probably should be...).  And studies have shown that while women tend to be more aroused by fantasies/scenarios (and are therefore often content to rely on their own imaginations), men tend to be more aroused by visual stimulation - and porn is a very easy source for that...

      Second, I'll reiterate again that it is normal for people to watch/view porn.  It is not going to make your husband more likely to cheat (could even make him less likely...).  There are plenty of happy, monogamous couples out there who enjoy porn, both separately and together.  

      The only time to have cause for concern is if your husband is watching illegal porn (you don't want the cops showing up at your house), or is potentially addicted.  If he is viewing porn like all day long and he can't get off in bed with you without watching porn, he could have an addiction.  But watching a bit for his daily/bi-daily/etc jerk-off is soooo not a problem, it just means your husband is normal.  And as Desi said, maybe you should check it out yourself - it could add a little spice to your joint love life...
    6 comments Most recent by SoniaOctober 2011Dear Desi.xxx Blog
  • Men: do you prefer a shaved woman or a natural one?
    • Recently, I received an email from a young woman asking me how guys like a girl to have her pussy shaved. She wanted to know if she should shave herself between her legs and if so, how much should she shave. Her interest was in the perspective and preferences of a guy.

      For me, the most important thing is for the a girl to shave the hair around her vaginal lips. This is important for me so that when I go down on a girl, its kind of a bummer to get a mouthful of pubic hair in your mouth. By keeping the immediate area well-tended, this can easily be achieved. Although I do not have a problem with a girl that is completely shaven, its not necessarily any better or different than a vagina that is generally well tended.

      A final thought on the matter. Course stubble around the vagina is the worst possible thing because it hurts both during oral and normal sex. If you only take one thing from this entire blog post, vaginal stubble is bad news!

      However, these are simply personal preferences. For some guys, they go nuts for a girl with a completely bare vagina. Also, there are guys who really got off on a hairy bush. It might be worth asking your lover what they like, it is a pretty simple thing you can do to improve your sex life. Guys: what do you think?

      Sincerely,

      Desi
    2 comments Most recent by PrajitOctober 2011Dear Desi.xxx Blog
  • Enjoying Oral
    • In a prior post, I offered up some of my tips on giving a good blow job.  Today, I would like to discuss the more general topic of enjoying oral sex.

      I can't count the number of times I have heard both men and women complain about giving/receiving oral sex.  So many girls hate giving oral, and I know more than one girl who is grossed out by the idea of being eaten out.  There are also a number of guys who are grossed out by the idea of giving oral, and, while one would assume all guys enjoy receiving a good sucking, I've encountered a surprising number who claim to be "unable to get off" from oral.  This just makes me sad.  Oral sex can and should be amazing to both give and receive.

      First, let's talk about receiving.  To the ladies out there who say they're grossed out by the idea of being eaten out, I have to say, get over it.  It feels amazing, and if you've never had it, you're missing out.  If the root of your problem is related to an insecurity over having a guy or girl stick their face down there, also get over that.  There is nothing to be insecure about.  As for the guys who claim they can't get off from a blow job, I don't really know what to say.  I suppose it could be some physical problem that I've never heard about, it could be a psychological block, it could be that the guy has become to accustomed to always getting off in one particular way, or it could just be that they haven't yet experienced a good blow job.  I had an ex-boyfriend who, when we first started dating, told me he couldn't get off from oral.  I quickly proved him wrong, and by the time our relationship ended, he was a huge fan of receiving oral...

      As for performing oral, it's all about enjoying it.  Sure there's a certainly level of repulsiveness to giving a blow job or eating someone out.  The base idea of shoving a cock down your throat, or sticking your tongue in and rubbing your face all over a pussy, is less than appealing for sure...  I'll confess that I myself spent many years reluctantly choking down dicks because it just seemed, well, obligatory.  And it sucked, both literally and figuratively.  But then I began fucking a particular friend, and my whole attitude changed.  This friend loves to play control games in bed - not in an s&m way, but he loves to control his partner's ability to receive pleasure and reach orgasm.  Giving him a blow job essentially became a sex game - while he normally controlled when I was licked, fucked, even when I could touch him, the blow job was my time to be in control of him.  100% in control.  I could play around and try new techniques, all the while watching his reactions and controlling his ability to cum.  And the more enthusiastic his reactions became, the wetter I got.  He enabled me to see that performing oral can not only be enjoyable, but it now seriously turns me on it give it.  

      So the key, boys and girls, is to relax and enjoy it.  Enjoy receiving something that feels awesome, and enjoy giving your partner an amazing pleasure.
    4 comments Most recent by DesiOctober 2011Dear Desi.xxx Blog
  • Dear Desi: I am tempted to cheat and can't get my mind off of it
    • Dear Desi and Effie,

      I am young woman in a long-term relationship with a man that I love very much.  However, I recently came back into contact with an old "friend" that I once had a steamy sexual relationship with.  Although we never dated officially, we had the most amazing sex that I still think about and masturbate to.  Now, when I see him I get wet and can't stop thinking about fucking him.  In some ways, I feel like I should just tell my boyfriend and come clean so it doesn't remain a mysterious secret that I feel awful about.  It has also crossed my mind to just fuck him once and get it out of my system.  At least, then I can move past this whole thing.

      What should I do? 


      Answer: You say you love your boyfriend very much, so I wouldn't tell him about your obsession or act on it in anyway.  Whoever this person is that causes you to get so hot and horny, I would advise you to stay away from him as long as you remain in a committed relationship.  

      Most importantly, don't try and suppress your feelings and desires.  Keep masturbating to the fantasy but instead of ending it after you cum, try imaging what it would be like to deal with the consequences of actually making that decision.  Imagine your boyfriend finding out.  Imagine breaking up with him.  Imagine having sex two or three more times with this person and getting sick of them.  Whatever it is that you think will come of such a choice, try to picture it and let it play out in your head.  Allow yourself to experience the entire thing, from start to finish.  Have the experience as many times as you need and then move on.  This way of training yourself to understand the negative consequences can work for many people.

      It also might help to try and figure if there is some underlying psychological problem that is causing you to obsess over sex with this person.  Are you bored at work?  Feeling down in general?  Is your boyfriend satisfying you in bed?  Although only you can figure it out for sure, it is always possible that a problem in your life is expressing itself through this fixation.  If you are able to address whatever problem is impacting you, it is likely that the overwhelming desire will subside.

      Effie, please chime in here.


      Effie's Answer:  It's extremely normal to feel a little tingle over encountering a former lover, especially if things ended amicably.  I could get into a whole myriad of biological reasons for being excited and tempted to cheat, but that could be a very long post...  Suffice it to say, it's not only common, but you as a homo sapien are wired to be feeling this.  It also is easy to get well, a bit bored with your sex life during a long-term relationship, no matter how much you love the other person, making it all the much more tempting to stray.  Bottom line is, it's just not worth it.  If your partner finds out, you might be lucky enough to have your relationship survive, but there will be a seriously devastating blow to it's level of mutual trust.  If you do manage to keep it a secret, the guilt is likely to eat away at you.  And I can report that I've had multiple friends report feeling so guilty during the act of cheating that it simply made the entire experience terrible (more than one even had difficulty reaching orgasm).  Masturbating to fantasies of him is fine - after all, while men prefer pictures/video, women tend to get far more excited by stories and fantasies - and it's often easiest to fantasize about that with which you are most familiar.  In the two-player arena, try spicing it up with your man and suggest something new - a new move, new location, new sex toy - anything.  It's easy for couples to get into sexual ruts, and on occasion giving something new a go could be just what you need to re-ignite your passion.
    2 comments Most recent by PriyaSeptember 2011Dear Desi.xxx Blog
  • The importance of fresh breath cannot be overstated
    • Everybody has been forced to deal with a person whose breath stinks.  This is a terrible thing for any person to experience and can actually feel painful in certain situations.

      There is nothing worse than getting up close to a pretty girl and being overcome by the smell of onions or some other foul odor.  I can only assume that the experience is equally as bad and disappointing for a girl who experiences somethings similar.  All of this is to make the point: keeping your mouth fresh and clean is important to being a considerate and desirable lover.  Who would want to kiss somebody who has bad breath?  The answer is nobody.  Even somebody that wants to kiss you in general might not want to when your breath is bad.

      Everybody has bad breath sometimes, it is impossible to completely avoid.  It is also something that can be easily dealt with by brushing, rinsing, and using breath fresheners.

      Be a considerate lover and keep your breath fresh! 
      :)
    2 comments Most recent by SaharaSeptember 2011Dear Desi.xxx Blog
  • Dear Desi & Effie: Freaked by Domination
    • Dear Desi & Effie,

      I started seeing this man recently, and we have had sex a couple of times - quite good sex at that. However our most recent rendezvous has made me rather uncomfortable, and I don't know what to do... You see, as soon as we got started, it became clear that he wanted to dominate me. In addition to holding me down, and calling me a slut, he repeatedly slapped my ass and face very hard, and also spat in my face. I didn't really know what to do then & still don't know what to do now - I always enjoy our time out of bed, and he has never done this before, but the whole event made me terribly uncomfortable and made me feel horribly degraded

      -A.G.


      Dear A.G.,

      While I am certainly a fan of integrating a little domination into sex myself, there is a huge difference between it being a fun, mutually enjoyable erotic experience and it being a disrespectful, degrading experience. I've encountered a couple of guys over the years who sound a lot like your fellow, and to be honest, It not only instantly turns me off, but also makes me wonder what kind of weird women-hating psychological issues they may have (mean Mom??). In contrast to them, my current beau likes to dominate, but in a way that not only am I comfortable with, it also just makes me want him more (he loves to hold me down while eating me out/fucking me, deny me from being able to touch/fuck his cock - he dominates by completely controlling when I get off). Now, I don't want to give the impression that I'm anti-hardcore domination - some people love it & that's great - but neither person should ever leave the session feeling truly degraded & uncomfortable. Ditch this guy - being uncomfortable in bed with someone is toxic to any relationship, and there are plenty of guys out there with whom you will feel comfortable.

      -Effie
    3 comments Most recent by DesiSeptember 2011Dear Desi.xxx Blog
  • Anal sex counts as real sex
    • Some people believe that anal sex does not count as sex.  There are those that for whatever reason, tell and perpetuate this myth.  Some women who think of themselves as virgins will have anal sex and think they have maintained their virginity.  In the most simple terms, these women suffer from self-delusion.  Also, some men will try to convince women that because anal sex is not real sex, they should be willing to do it without feeling inhibited. Unfortunately, these men are trying to manipulate or completely immature.

      Any person or couple that has enjoyed anal sex together will tell you that it is as personal and intimate as vaginal sex, if not more so.  Many couples consider anal sex to be an even more serious of decision than having vaginal sex.  Most couples that have tried anal sex have had vaginal sex first, many times.  Anal sex is great but it's not the same thing as a handjob. 

      Ladies: If you encounter a man that tries to convince you to have anal sex because "it's not really sex," my advice to you is to tell him to shove it up his own ass.  Any person that tells you something this foolish is either trying to mislead you into having sex with them or seriously uninformed about sexual matters.

      Gentlemen: If a girl tells you that she is a virgin but will let you do her anally, my advice is to nod your head understandingly and fuck her in the ass.
    4 comments Most recent by DesiSeptember 2011Dear Desi.xxx Blog
  • From a Fave Blog: Accidental Condom Inhalation
    • I'm a huge fan of the blog "NCBI ROFL" (www.ncbirofl.com) - it was started by two students at the University of California in Berkeley, and covers hilarious studies from the database of the National Center for Biotechnology Information in the USA.  This is an abstract that I found particularly crazy: 

      A 27-year-old lady presented with persistent cough, sputum and fever for the preceding six months.  In spite of trials with antibiotics and anti-tuberculosis treatment for the preceding four months, her symptoms did not improve.  A subsequent chest radiograph showed non-homogeneous collapse-consolidation of right upper lobe.  Videobronchoscopy revealed an inverted bag like structure in right upper lobe bronchus and rigid bronchoscopic removal with biopsy forceps confirmed the presence of a condom.  Detailed retrospective history also confirmed accidental inhalation of the condom during fellatio.


      First off, WOW!!  I've heard plenty of stories over the years about crazy things being stuck in people as a result of sexual acts, but this one definitely wins as the most out of control.  Second off, I don't care how embarrassed you might feel,  if there is ever a foreign object inside of you, always tell your doctor.  Hiding anything will just make your treatment less effective, if it even works at all...  Finally, I'm just blown away by the fact that the patient was given TB medicine without a chest x-ray - I have no medical credentials, but even I know that is just ridiculous...

    3 comments Most recent by NinaSeptember 2011Dear Desi.xxx Blog
  • Nikitha Ban is Sexist
    • The decision to ban Nikitha Thukral from acting by the Kannada Film Producers Association is a sexist and unjustified move.  While Nikitha is being punished and humiliated for her alleged affair, Darshan, who is accused of far more serious acts in addition to the affair has not been banned.  Although banning both of them would be no less wise, at least, it wouldn't be so sexist.  If the allegations against Darshan are true, he has much more to worry about than being banned from acting.  He needs to worry about going to jail.

      It is my view that Nikitha and Darshan's private sex lives are their own personal business and not matters to be considered by the Producers Association in determining their fitness to act.  If actors or studios do not wish to work with Nikitha, let them make that decision on their own without outside interference.  The Producers Association looks foolish for trying to be the "ethics police" and even worse for their overt discrimination against Nikitha.  It is shameful to treat a woman or any human being this way for something that hasn't even been proven.

      As more actors, journalists, and citizens speak out against this injustice, the Producers Association will realize what a big mistake they have made. Let's hope that Nikitha and her career can bounce back from this unfortunate development.

      For more information on this sex scandal, there is an excellent article in India Today: http://indiatoday.intoday.in/story/kannada-actress-nikitha-ban-sparks-anger/1/151154.html
    4 comments Most recent by PriyaSeptember 2011Dear Desi.xxx Blog
  • Study session gets interesting
    • There was a hot girl with big tits and round ass in my economics course in college.  I used to love looking at the thong riding up her ass crack when I sat behind her in class.  Throughout the day, I would look forward to seeing her.  Also, I liked to take a good look at her juicy tits whenever possible.  After weeks of staring at her, I asked her if she wanted to study together for an upcoming exam.  She agreed.

      When she arrived at my place, she was dressed in a low-cut skirt and a tight white shirt.  As always, her thong was sticking out a little.  She looked amazing.  We sat on my couch and opened up our books.  Bored and distracted, I made my move.  I put my around her waist and kissed her.  Eagerly, she kissed me back.  She started to rub her hands all over my chest and my arms.  Working her way to down, she started to feel my hard dick under my pants with one hand while rubbing my chest with the other.  I grabbed her tits and rubbed them around while she was exploring my body.  As I pushed her tits together, I admired how big and wonderful they looked.  Unbuttoning my shirt, she started to rub my bare chest with her hands.  

      While she remained sitting on the couch, she stood me up and unbuttoned my pants and removed them along with my underwear.  Slowly, she started to kiss the tip of my cock.  Then she looked up at me and put my dick in her mouth.  She closed her eyes again and pumped her head up and down.  After sucking it for a bit, she would take it out of her mouth and jerk it while looking right at it.  Then she would lick the tip and put it back in her mouth and enjoy it again with her eyes closed.  She looked beautiful sucking my dick.  She lifted up my dick and licked my balls softly.  Putting them in her mouth, she sucked on them while she jerked my dick.  It felt incredible to have her softly sucking on my balls.

      Aroused, I pulled my dick out of her mouth, grabbed her tits, stuck my wet dick between them, and pushed them together.  As I fucked her tits, she would lick the tip of dick as I brought it up to her face.  I continued to fuck her tits for a long time, admiring how good they looked.  Within a minute, she was pushing them together for me while I fucked her tits.  After a bit, she grabbed my cock and jammed it back into her mouth.  I laid her down on her back but let her keep sucking my dick as I got on top of her to lick her pussy.  Still wearing her skirt and panties, I pulled off her panties and felt her clit and pussy.  She was so wet that it drove me crazy.  Feverishly, I licked her clit and stuck my face deep into her pussy.  I was grabbing her ass while I licked her pussy over and over again.  

      I told her to get on her hands and knees, she immediately complied.  I licked her pussy a little from behind and then stuck my dick inside of her.  Within a few minutes, I was fucking her hard, really hard.  She  pushing her body into me with a lot force. I collected her hair together in a pony tail and started to pull on it.  She screamed.  I fucked her as hard as I could until we were both out of breath and she was cumming.  I could feel her pussy powerfully contracting around my dick as she orgasmed.  After she was finished, I pulled out and started to jerk off onto her ass.  As I was cumming, I rubbed my dick all over her ass and asshole.  She moaned a little while I was cumming and rubbing my dick on her.
    3 comments Most recent by berrySeptember 2011Dear Desi.xxx Blog
  • Dear Desi: Condom slips off during sex
    • Dear Desi: I am a 23 year old and I am nervous about having sex with any woman because when I do, the condom will slip off.  I have had sex three times and this has happened to me twice.  Both times, it was very embarrassing and certainly killed "the mood."  Should I use condoms if they slip off?

      - Sick of Condoms, Bangalore

      Dear Sick of Condoms,

      Of course you should keep using condoms, but not ones that slip off.  It is very important for you to make sure that the condoms you are using fit your penis properly.  When a condom slips off, it means that it is simply too big for you.  Finding a condom that fits you properly will make your penis look bigger because it will not be sagging or hanging off.  More importantly, a properly fitting condom will function and protect you from sexually transmitted diseases and pregnancy because it will not slip off.

      The best way to find a condom that fits you properly is to buy a variety of condom brands and sizes.  Because penis size is a very sensitive matter for most men, many condom companies do not put the words "small" on a condom package even if it is meant to be a smaller condom.  That is why it is best to buy a variety of condoms to test.  Take them home and try them on then next time you are ready to masturbate.  If it should fit tightly, but not too tightly.  It should be skin tight but it should not squeeze you and cut off blood flow.  Masturbate in each of the condoms until you find one that fits you properly.  Once you have found a condom that fits you properly, you will feel more comfortable using them and avoid any future "embarrassing" moments.

      Sincerely, Desi
    2 comments Most recent by PrajitSeptember 2011Dear Desi.xxx Blog
  • First year of college craziness, two girls in one night, one was watching (PART 2)
    • As I sat on the bed in the small dorm room talking to girl3, girl2 suggested that we watch a movie.  She put something on and then quickly fell asleep leaving girl3 and I alone watching the movie on the bed together.  I took off my shoes, and laid down while she sitting on the side of the bed.  I put my arm around her waist and asked her to lay down next to me.  As she did, with my arm still on her waste, we kept talking for a few minutes but now we were whispering to keep quiet while girl2 slept.  I started to kiss her and feel her body.

      While we were talking, she had told me that she was a gymnast and I could tell.  Her body was firm but soft and her hair felt wonderful in my hand.  I rubbed her tits, over her tank top, they were on the small side but shaped perfectly.  Her ass was big and firm and I as started to rub it, she got on top of me and started to slowly dry fuck me.  I could feel her fit ass flexing as she moved up and down.  As I lifted up her shirt, I sat up and started to kiss her stomach she looked over at girl2 who was rustling around and turning over in her bed.  We smiled at each other and she leaned down and whispered in my ear: "I don't care if she sees."  At that point, I was very excited to take this sexy stranger's clothes off to see what her naked body.  I didn't care either if girl3 woke up and saw us.  Girl1 was a hot and quick fuck right down to business, girl3 wanted to take her time.

      As I lifted her tanktop over her heard, I continued to kiss her stomach and work my way up to her breasts.  I kissed and licked her perfect tits.  Laying her down and laying on top of her, I kept licking her tits while I started to rub her clit and vagina on top of her shorts.  I took off her shorts, looked at her laying in nothing but her underwear and realized what a lucky and amazing night I was having.  Removing her panties, I started to kiss and lick her clit.  I rubbed my toungue up and down softly along the lips of her vagina and started to tease her by sticking my tongue inside just a little bit.  Going back to her clit, I licked her pussy until she was grabbing my head and beginning to sweat.  Although she was trying her best to muffle herself, her squeals were beginning to get louder.

      After making her cum for the first time, I brought my dick up to her face and slowly put it in her mouth.  As she sucked my cock, she was rubbing her pussy.  By now, she was flushed and I could see that she was sweating.  With my cock right in her face, she put a condom on my dick and told me that she wanted to have sex.  With her still on her laying on her back, I slid my dick inside her pussy and started to kiss her.  

      Very slowly, I fucked her while I was kissing her neck, ears, and lips.  I fucked her harder and faster and she was beginning to moan.  By now, there was no point in even trying to be quiet for girl3.  I put one of my fingers in her mouth and she happily started to suck it like it was my dick.  Then I took my wet finger and started to touch her asshole while I was fucking her hard.  She bit my ear and and told me that she was cumming.  Then she told me that she wanted me cum on her stomach.  I pulled out of her pussy and she jerked me off until I came all over her stomach and tits.  

      Needless to say, I spent the night with girl3. In the morning, I fucked her again in the shower.  But that is a different story for a different time.
    3 comments Most recent by PrajitSeptember 2011Dear Desi.xxx Blog
  • Late Night Visit
    • Late one summer night, I started feeling particularly horny, and, knowing my boyfriend was home alone, I sent him a text to wake him and rushed over to his house.  He didn't know why I was coming over, I think he thought there was a problem, so he was quite surprised when I silently led him upstairs to his bedroom.  It was a warm night, but there was a cool breeze blowing in through his open windows, and the full moon lit up the entire room [sounds ridiculously fabricated, but I swear it's all true].  I slipped his shirt off over his head and began to delicately kiss him, moving my hands down to slide of his pants as well.  I lead him over to the bed and made him sit down, then proceeded to strip off my own clothes while he watched.  I dropped down to my knees and slowly licked his balls and up his dick before slipping it in my mouth.  I sucked him for awhile, bringing him nearly to orgasm, and then pushed him back on the bed and licked my way up his body.  Before I could even get him inside of me, he'd flipped me onto my back on the bed, and buried his face in my pussy.  He started out lightly sucking my clit, then moved on to licking all over my pussy, pressing harder and harder and eliciting louder and louder moans from me.  I can't imagine how the neighbors could have slept through the noise I made.  I came so hard, and after licking up my cum he pulled me to the edge of the bed and plunged his dick into my pussy.  He was rock hard and was thrusting slowly and deeply inside of me; it felt amazing.  We fucked like this for awhile, then I pulled him onto the bed and mounted him in one of my favorite positions - the reverse cowgirl.  I don't think he had ever experienced it before, because as soon as I starting rocking back and forth his back arched up, and he moaned like crazy when I started to rub his balls against my clit as well.  I don't think he had ever cum so hard in his life.  Just the feeling of his cock pulsing inside of me as he came made me orgasm.  Suddenly he sat up and whispered in my ear, asking if he could fuck me in the ass.  I immediately slipped his dick out of my pussy and into my asshole.  This I know he had never experienced before, and he was in utter ecstasy.  After a bit I got onto my hands and knees and he began thrusting from behind, shoving his dick deep inside my ass as I rubbed my pussy.  It didn't take long before we were both cumming again.  We fucked all night in just about every position, with the wind sweeping in, cooling our sweaty bodies.  It was beyond incredible.
    6 comments Most recent by AdminSeptember 2011Dear Desi.xxx Blog
  • My Favorite Blow-Job Tips
    • Naturally, over the years, I've amassed a collection of tips from various sources on performing a great blow-job.  Here's a selection of my favorites:

      1. Variety-  Don't just bob your head up and down.  Most of the tips that follow should be interspersed with bobbing.

      2. Use Your Tongue -  Key spots to hit include:  Licking the vein that runs along the back (well the front to you when erect, oh and you're looking for that nice big vein that runs from the base of the shaft up to the base of the tip);  While stroking his shaft with your hand, flick the tip of your tongue against the spot at the top of that vein, where it meets the tip (the little area that tends to have a v-shape to it)... I've had this particular move elicit some responses of major ecstasy;  And if you have a little skill, rub the tip of your tongue up against the back of his cock while you suck up and down.

      3. Always Pay Attention to the Balls -  I don't know if this makes guys crazy because they tend to be forgotten, or if it just feels so amazing they always freak, but always pay attention to his balls while doing anything.  Lick and suck them while you stroke his cock, or, lightly fondle them in your hand while you suck him off, and if you really want to make his eyes roll back in his head, rub the patch of skin behind his balls while you play with them.

      4. Go the Extra Mile -  If you're truly adventurous, move past that little patch of skin behind the balls and rub a finger on or insert it into his asshole while you suck him off.  I have plenty of girl friends who are absolutely unwilling to do this under any circumstances, and there are certainly many guys who just freak out over it, so I really recommend only trying this move if you know your fella's going to be okay with it.  You might wind up with some serious awkwardness otherwise...
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  • First year of college craziness, two girls in one night, one was watching (PART 1)
    • My freshman year of college, I had two great looking girls that lived directly across the hall from me.  For the sake of simplicity, there are three girls involved in this story and we will call them girl1, girl2, and girl3.  One day, girl1 came over and asked if she could spend the night in my bed because her roommate, girl2 had a guest in town visiting (girl3).  That will be fine, I said but added that I was about to go to sleep and that she would have to get into bed with me.  She agreed.  I laid down on my side to make room for both of us because it was a dorm bed, which is obviously very small.  Immediately, she started to press the back of her body up against the front of mine and started pushing her ass into me and wigging it around on my dick.  This made me hard so I reached around and started to play with her breasts and rub her vagina.  

      Girl1 was not looking for foreplay of any kind, she jumped on top of me and started to suck my dick.  Just when I was starting to really enjoy myself, she got on top of me and started to ride me like she was possessed.  Her pussy was soaking wet and she was almost screaming within a few seconds.  There is no question that this girl was one of the quickest to orgasm and capable of more orgasms than most women that I have slept with.  She was a fantastic fuck, truly epic. 

      I fucked her while she laid on the end of the bed and I was standing up.  I fucked her up against the wall.  I fucked her with her on top of me.  When I was ready to cum, she took off my condom and started to suck my dick.  While I was cumming, she was rubbing my dick all over her face with her eyes closed.  After we were cleaned up, girl1 was back in my bed and she fell right asleep.  At that point, I wasn't tired (I never was) so I walked across the hall to see what girl2 was up to.  In truth, I just didn't feel like sleeping and knew this girl would be awake.  When I walked into the room, I remembered that she had an out of town guest visiting, girl3, which is why girl1 needed to sleep in my bed in the first place.  Girl3 was going to sleep in her bed.

      I chatted and hung out with girl2 and girl3.  Immediately, there was a bit of chemistry between me and girl3.  To be continued....
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